This month I am working to sell some stuff I don’t need or use on eBay. I have about a dozen things listed and I noticed that my negative feelings were creating a negative result.
Somebody had sent me an offer for one of my items for about $56. I had the thought that the item may be able to sell for more. I felt scarce and afraid, like the offer wasn’t good enough. So I rejected it.
What I noticed was I said no to $56 and yes to $0! A literal negative result.
I could’ve felt thrilled that someone wanted to give me $56 for this item.
Instead, my fear that it the offer wasn’t good enough meant that I accepted $0.
Really blew me away to notice that.